The Person i Admire the most

As an individual, we might have met up with a lot of people throughout our life, yet people leave, and life still goes on as what it used to be but some people stays in heart forever. The person that I admire and love the most is none other than my mother. Normally, people start to love each other after looking or knowing them but mother starts to love and understand each movement of her child the day she sees a positive pink line on her pregnancy test strip. I admire her the most as she possesses most of the qualities, but the ones that influence me the most are that she is empathetic, patience and great cook.

Firstly, I think one of the most endearing quality my mother possesses is empathy. Empathy is the ability to understand or feel what another person is experiencing. It is very important to respond to own child with empathy that makes mother wonder why child behaved the way he/she did, instead of launching into full-on discipline mode. Furthermore, my mother always makes sure that we both are on the same side of the arguments or talks rather than a battle to be won. She always validates me by showing or telling what I must be feeling. I did not meet my mother from last five years but still I feel that she is the person who understand me and my problems the most. Undoubtedly, she seems to be touch everyone in a way where one can immediately connect with her and for sure she has no false pretenses. In addition, she crosses all barriers and can connect with others and radiates great empathy to others.

Another attribute of my mother is patience. With patience, we are less likely to yell, lose our temper or say things we might regret, that’s why patience is a key when it comes to motherhood. My mother has been very patient with me and my siblings and of course she supports us in everything we do. Indeed, she does not scold whenever I fail in something, instead she consoles me make me feel better by telling me stories about her own failures and achievements throughout life. When I got married my mother advised me that every new thing or person comes in life takes time to adjust in life so be patience, and I still use that advise to make my life more easier. Along with, she always accepts my behavior from taking forever to put on my shoes to testing my boundaries.

Lastly, another quality that my mother has is that she is an amazing cook. She has always liked cooking. Her mother was not around much, so she had to learn on her own. She always comes up with new recipes and I love trying her new dishes because they are just amazing. She never gets tired of cooking at even midnight. In our Indian culture, female cooks at home three courses of the day and feeds the family. Even though, we were living in joint family, she has been always happy to cook for entire family. Growing up, I was always excited about meal times because they were real treats. I owe my cooking prowess to my mother who was also relentless in teaching me to be great cook. Perhaps, I should encourage her to author her own recipe book

In conclusion, my mom is the one that is always there, the person I can count on, the one that will never turn her back to me. She is the one who supports, helps, hug, kisses, gives me confidence, comforts, listens, makes me laugh, my chef, cheers me up and wipes my tears. She is definitely the one that I always admire and love the most. 

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